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Blog, Self development / 02.05.2021

Are there some things about yourself that you don't like and won't accept? Yes? Me too! We all come in a package, mixed with the good and the bad. The secret to being contented in life is to embrace all parts of yourself, and I'm still learning that. You see, I always hated my gummy smile. I have pink gums that are quite visible and protruding when I smile. Up until recently I used to hide this part of me away, refusing to accept it or even think about...

Blog / 25.04.2021

Hey lovely readers. Do you know sometimes the thing that keeps us from getting the freedom we crave could be a limiting belief you hold in your subconscious? It might be there and you don't really know the effect. What are limiting beliefs? A conviction about an idea that is not necessarily true. For me, I avoided growing up and getting regular income because I felt it will make me boring and tied to the 9-5. It seems irrational but it was there at the back of my...

Blog / 24.04.2021

Howdy lovely readers, hope you are doing great. Today I want to talk about big dreams, those big scary dreams you cringe at the thought of someone knowing them. If you are like me, then you also have such dreams. And it's okay to not tell anyone. But there is a fine balance for this. Some gurus say tell people your dreams so that it can serve as a declaration of your intention to the Universe and also make other people hold you accountable to them. But I don't...

Blog, Wellness / 18.04.2021

The difference between the confident people and those who are not confident boils down to one thing; how they talk to themselves. We have a continuous narrative running in our minds that we have to get on our side if we want to win in life. Just imagine walking around with someone dragging you down every moment of the day. To be fair the negative voice sometimes lets up but the question here is whether it is negative or positive predominantly. For the longest time I had a negative...

Blog, Self development / 17.04.2021

Hello readers, I want to let you in on the secret of goal-setting, and how it has changed my life. My biggest ever challenge had always been having a weak and anxiety-ridden personality. From as long as I can remember I always felt this way. When I was in my teens I felt it was probably due to my upbringing (which could very well be the case but I had some siblings who were more confident so I was confused). So I decided to be around confident kids by...

Blog / 10.04.2021

2021 will make me 34 years old. For now I'm still thirty-three : ). I have learnt a lot over the past years, most especially in the last 5 years. I was never open to advice in my younger years and thought I knew it all until I found myself in Europe without a legal resident permit with only myself to blame and only me to get me out of this situation. I became humble and sought advice. Since then I have been a continuous learner and...

Blog, Self development / 03.04.2021

Hello dear Loving What You Live readers, I hope you are staying safe and above all happy. Today I'll like to share with you someone who I've looked up to and learned from along my journey. She is someone I met only virtually but I have hung onto her teachings, books, videos, social media and everything I could get my hands on. So here you go: LISA NICHOLS I don't think this is the first time I'm writing about Lisa Nichols, I did mention her in the post about my...

Blog, Health, Self development, Wellness / 28.03.2021

How to Beat the Negative Self- talk Throughout your life you are the person you will spend most of your time talking to. We all have the inner voice that keeps us company, rings alarm bells when things are not right and motivates us when necessary. It is equally normal for this voice to sometimes send you negative thoughts about yourself. Especially when you experience failure. But if you spend most of your time having negative talks about yourself it can become dangerous. This excess negativity you have to...

Blog, Health / 27.03.2021

Fight Depression and Win Depression is a condition that can leave you both physically and mentally drained. Reasons why if you are battling with this guarding your mental help is very important. It is not always easy to muster the will to seek help but they are small and simple steps you can take to help you improve on your wellbeing. In this post you will find a collection of strategies which can help handle depression if you apply them on a daily basis. Because the hardest thing you struggle...

Blog, Self development / 27.03.2021

Self-confidence is one of the most attractive character traits a woman can have. I mean having the ability to trust yourself and instill respect whenever you step into a room is amazing. And it is attainable too! While with some people it is natural for others not so much. If you are struggling with your self-confidence the good news is you have the power to change all of that. Confidence is something that can be learned. If you like the most confident people around you they share common traits....